Sadhguru
How should I see a partner who hurt me, without a trust that works like a leash?
Trust is not a dog collar
Trust that says cross the line and there will be trouble is a soft imprisonment, like an electronic dog collar. Everybody works according to their own understanding, and right now that is probably all they are capable of.
If you really trust somebody, whatever they do, they may be doing it in their own understanding of life. Everybody is working according to his intelligence and his understanding.