Om Swami
Is it fair to blame my spouse for not being the person I married, after years of marriage?
Walk with balance, not one-sided expectation
After 15 years something else has come into your mind and you think differently. To hope that your life partner will keep walking exactly as before is somewhat unjust. One has to walk with balance.
You have started thinking of something else, and if you expect your life partner to keep walking just as before, that is a little unjust.