Sadhguru
Why does divorce hurt so much even when I want it to end?
Why divorce hurts
When two people have shared their emotions, body, sensations and living spaces, their memories merge. Ripping it apart is almost like tearing yourself apart, and that is not going to be easy.
Because two memories have merged in many ways, ripping them apart is almost like tearing yourself apart, and that is not going to be easy for various reasons.