Sadhguru
Does a prenuptial agreement and keeping everything separate help a marriage?
Don't make marriage a marketplace
If the feminine is not valued, gentleness goes away and marriage becomes a marketplace. Going at it suspiciously in the name of equality, you will never know the joy of knowing each other and being one with each other.
But here we still have the joy of two people becoming one and enjoying that. Maybe after some time you will fight, but at least you have the joy of weaving two lives into one.