Sadhguru
Why should I be loving towards everything instead of just one person?
Be pleasant within, as an intelligent way to live
The world has enough unpleasantness, so you don't have to manufacture your own unpleasantness within you. Love is being truly pleasant towards whatever you behold.
Love is not about somebody; it is about you being truly pleasant. It is not a matter of right or wrong; it is an intelligent way to exist.