Sadhguru
Why does one failure in life make me fall apart even when everything else is fine?
One fallen ball freaks you out
When you attempt something beyond your capability, you invest in all the fireballs, and even if one falls down it'll freak you out. Your business, children, wife or health can each be the one that falls.
Even if one ball falls down, it will freak you out. The others are all fine, just one fell, and that is the problem.