Sadhguru
Is it wrong to grieve deeply, and can I grieve without getting stuck in it?
Intense grief without entanglement
Even trees bleed when grief happens to them, and animals grieve, each in their own way. Shiva's grief was very intense, yet he was not entangled in it.
Do you think Shiva is less than that? No. His grief is very intense, but he is not entangled in it.