Sadhguru
Why can't I fix my ego by blaming it?
You can't fix what you can't find
If you blame your nastiness on Mr. Ego and don't know where he is, how do you fix him? Say instead that it is you, and naturally nastiness will go down.
If you say that whenever you're nasty Mr. Ego does it, and you don't know where he is, his address, ID or phone number, how do you fix him?