Sadhguru
How do I let go of hatred towards someone I can't stand?
Dislike is your own making
Likes and dislikes are made by you; they are not God-given laws, only your compulsiveness. To break your emotional rhythms, do what you don't like, even working with someone you cannot stand.
If you want to break your emotional rhythms, the simplest thing is to look for somebody you cannot stand, work with them, and choose them as your partner.