Om Swami
Can I blame the other person for my jealousy?
Don't blame others for your jealousy
Saying "I am jealous because the other person does this to me" is a false argument. Let the other person answer for themselves; you speak of your own state.
I am angry because of this, I am jealous because of this, I have ill will because the other person is doing this to me. That means nothing; it is a false argument.