Premanand Maharaj Ji
How can I help others with compassion without getting attached?
Be compassionate, but without mamata
Compassion is right, but do not form mamata (a sense of 'mine') toward those you help. Think that you are giving Bhagwan's own gift back to Him.
Be compassionate but do not form attachment. Bhagwan says 'nirmamo nirahankara' – when? After showing compassion, one must be free of attachment.