Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I respond to a family member's harsh behaviour without getting angry?
Smile, bear it, and raise love at home
Bear harsh behaviour and smile; your smile will strike the other person like a blow and they will feel they should improve. Increase affection in the family, do your duty and chant the name much.
So you should bear it and smile; after a while your smile will strike them like a blow: I behaved so harshly and they smiled.