Premanand Maharaj Ji
Why do I hate someone, and how do I stop seeing them as bad?
Hatred is a pair of glasses
Hatred comes when we see a wrong quality in someone, and the glasses of maya (the world's illusion) make that person look sinful, wicked and low. Remove the fault in yourself, because what you see is in you.
Hatred arises when we see a wrong quality in someone, and we decide the person is very bad. It is as if we have put on green glasses.