Premanand Maharaj Ji
What should I do when relatives or others speak against me and behave badly with me?
Stay agreeable toward those who act against you
When the person you serve behaves unfavorably toward you, do not pay attention to their opposition and stay agreeable toward them. If they stay against you, bear it and keep being agreeable; then you will win.
Do not pay attention to their hostility. Stay agreeable toward them. If they stay against you, bear it, and if you stay agreeable toward them, you will win.