Premanand Maharaj Ji
Does worshipping in a temple matter if I neglect my old parents?
Parents' service pleases Bhagwan
When someone serves a bedridden elder, no separate aarti is needed and Bhagwan is pleased. Hurting an old parent and then bowing in a temple will not please Him.
When an old person is soiling the cot and someone serves him, there is no need for a separate aarti of Bhagwan.