Premanand Maharaj Ji
Should I remove attachment to my family or change how I see them?
Change the bhaav, see Bhagwan
Attachment is not to be reduced but increased, with the feeling (bhaav) changed: see Bhagwan in your wife and son. Advise your son, and if he does not listen, bow at his feet.
Tell me: attachment is not to be removed. Attachment is to be increased further. The feeling has to be changed.