Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I handle petty quarrels with fellow devotees without ill feeling?
Correct if needed, but never spoil your feeling
See everyone as a form of Bhagwan. You may scold or stay silent to correct someone, but keep your feeling good, because spoiled feeling spoils your own spiritual progress.
If you do wrong, we will scold you. But we will not bear malice toward you. We will not hate you. We will not feel contempt for you.