Premanand Maharaj Ji
Why does losing someone or something hurt so much, and how does bhajan help?
Grief comes from a mistaken attachment
Grief comes from ignorance: we spread perishable relationships and assume them to be ours, so their perishing brings pain. Do bhajan so that ignorance is destroyed, and the grief of your own death and of another's death will go.
Do bhajan of Bhagwan. If ignorance is destroyed, the grief of your own dying will go, and the grief of another's dying will go.