Premanand Maharaj Ji
How can I tell if someone's sweet love is really deceit and selfishness?
Deceit and trickery keep a person from reaching Bhagwan
Selfishness, deceit and trickery are the tendencies that stop a person from reaching Bhagwan. Bhagwan does not like delusion, deceit and trickery, and only a pure mind reaches him.
Otherwise, the deceitful, crafty and selfish will speak to you of great love, and you will feel they are sacrificing their lives for you.