Premanand Maharaj Ji
What should I do when my ego is hurt and I lose control of my mind?
See the insult as Bhagwan's arrangement
When someone hurts your ego, see it as Bhagwan's arrangement and you can stay in control. Ego is your weak spot, so Bhagwan strikes there.
If at that time you regard the one who hurts your ego as Bhagwan's arrangement, you can stay in control.