Premanand Maharaj Ji
My wife and my parents don't get along. Whom should I put first?
Keep parents first, with respect for your wife
Give priority to your parents, because they brought you into the world, while your wife is part of you. Give your wife comfort, but do not let her block your service to them.
Priority is to be given to the parents, because the wife is one's own part, while the parents are the ones who brought us into the world.