Premanand Maharaj Ji
My spouse and I keep fighting and then hold hatred for each other. What should I do before it ends in separation?
Stay silent in anger, answer with love
Quarrelling is not good. It leads to bad behaviour and great loss, and a wise person solves a problem instead of letting it grow. When your spouse is angry, listen calmly and do not answer back. Do not fight, give love.
When your spouse, in anger, says something like that, listen quietly. Do not answer back. Do not fight.