Premanand Maharaj Ji
Is it wrong to love my wife or husband deeply and fear losing them?
Love your spouse with Bhagwan in mind
Loving your spouse is good fortune and fits grihastha dharma, the duty of a householder. Keep a sense of Bhagwan in your spouse, live within dharma and chant the Name.
See Bhagwan in your spouse, live the married relationship in keeping with dharma, chant the Name, and serve your parents.