Premanand Maharaj Ji

How should I handle heartbreak when the person I loved is marrying someone else?

Offer your tears to Bhagwan

Between people there is selfishness, not pure love. We feel a breakup when our need is met by someone else. Don't waste tears here; weep for Bhagwan.

Love is for Bhagwan. With humans there is selfishness, attachment, desire-based bonds and clinging. Not love.