Premanand Maharaj Ji
Should I pray for someone I hate instead of condemning them?
Pray for them, don't hate
Pray to Bhagwan to give the person good sense, and explain lovingly if he is a friend. Criticism, neglect and hatred bring good to neither him nor you.
Pray that he be given strength and good sense, not that we criticise, neglect or hate him, for neither his good nor ours will come of that.