Premanand Maharaj Ji
Why does anger arise, and can affection really change a difficult person at home?
Anger comes from desire; affection is stronger
Anger grows from desire placed on others while we do not look at our own duty, and it is a gate to hell. Affection and truth carry great strength to change the other person.
If we do not hold anger and keep behaving with affection and truth, the other person will have to change.