Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
What does surrender (sharanagati) mean when I am always confused about what to do?
Surrender frees you from dilemma
Surrender (sharanagati) means moving from dilemma into ease. When you take refuge in a guru, he tells you what to do and the matter is finished.
Moving away from dilemma into ease is what surrender means. What is that ease? Living in the world, you will stay in dilemma: should I do this or not? Should I do bhajan or not?