Premanand Maharaj Ji
When someone hurts me, is it really their fault or my own karma?
Others hurt you through your own karma
The pain or joy you receive is the fruit of your own deeds, so no one is truly your enemy. Bear it, and forgive the person, because your karma is riding on them.
So no person is being hostile to us; it is my own karma, from some past birth or this one, sitting in their mind and giving me pain at every moment.