Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I know if my love is true love or just selfishness?
True love is pure and free of jealousy
True love is pure and willing to give up even life for the beloved. If jealousy arises when the beloved loves another, it is selfishness, not love.
Love is this: if the beloved likes someone, we will touch that person's feet. If we see the beloved happy meeting you, we say, 'Do meet them,' because their joy is our joy and their happiness is our happiness.