Premanand Maharaj Ji
How can I build the habit of forgiving others?
Forgiving comes from the strength of bhajan
Forgiving comes from bhajan-bal, the joy and strength of bhajan. When your heart is full of that joy, you can tell yourself that even a slap is your own prarabdha, a sin from the past, and bear it.
When there is the joy of bhajan, even if someone slaps you from behind... the mind asks, "He slapped me." Yes, it is your prarabdha.