Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
How can I stop being bound by the people and things I keep thinking about?
Turn your longing toward God
You may have felt how the one you love very much comes to mind again and again, even when you do not want it; that is called the bond of love. Let the remembrance that comes be of God, and let your crying be to reach God, not to gain the world.
Let the memory that comes to you be of the Paramatma, not the world. Weep, but not to gain the world. Weep to gain the Paramatma.