Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I respond to people who abuse or insult me without turning hateful?
Give up the wish to punish; pray for them
Give up the wish to punish, ignore them and bear it, and pray that Bhagwan does them good. If someone goes beyond the limit, take help from the law rather than acting yourself.
We should give up the feeling of wanting to punish as far as we can. May Bhagwan do them good, may Bhagwan purify their intellect.