Premanand Maharaj Ji
Why do I lose my temper with family, and how does anger affect my bhajan?
Remember your duty, not your expectation
Anger arises when we forget our duty and expect things from others. Check your own duty toward husband, wife, children and family, and keep naam jap going so the mind cools.
Anger has no existence of its own; it is born of desire. Now we must look at what our duty toward that person is.