Premanand Maharaj Ji
How can I respect my spouse and stay happy in marriage?
See Bhagwan's arrangement in your spouse
Bhagwan has arranged your life partner for your good, and you do not know what your wife was before or what she will become. Keep your eyes on Bhagwan and stay humble toward the one who became the means.
In the same way, you do not know what your wife was in the past or what she will be in the future, but Bhagwan knows.