Premanand Maharaj Ji
Is ringing the bell and doing aarti enough, or does seva of my family matter too?
Serve family as worship
Seva is worship of Bhagwan, and lighting incense and doing aarti is only its outer part. Serve those Bhagwan has placed in your home; if you neglect them and speak bitterly, going to the temple gains nothing.
Bhagwan dwells in every heart-temple, and in your home itself he has been given to you for your seva as mother-in-law, father-in-law, husband, son and so on. Serve them.