Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
Ask politely three times, then calm yourself
Ask politely three times, then calm yourself
If someone in the family is against dharma, maryada (proper conduct) or tradition, request them humbly, twice, then wait a little the third time. If they still will not understand, the lesson is to settle your own mind.
If someone is against dharma, against maryada, against tradition, request them three times humbly to agree, twice, and the third time wait a little.