Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
Why does attachment cause me so much sorrow?
Attachment is the root of sorrow
Sorrow comes from calling someone or something your own. Moh, or attachment, is itself the sorrow, so a seeker should stay alert to it.
When 35 died, you felt no sorrow and kept ordering biscuits and snacks. But when one of your own was among the 35, your tea was left behind. This attachment itself is the sorrow.