Premanand Maharaj Ji
When someone hurts me and doesn't care, how can I see Bhagwan in them?
Why hurt makes it hard to see God in others
When we are in body-identification (deha-abhimaan, taking ourselves to be the body) and someone acts against us, we see only that person, not Bhagwan. A true devotee's vision sees God even in adverse situations.
When someone acts against us, we see only that person, not Bhagwan. When they act in our favour, we can see Bhagwan in them.