Premanand Maharaj Ji
Why can't indulging my desires bring peace, and why do I need restraint?
Indulgence never calms the mind
Trying to calm the mind through indulgence never works. Come into sanyam (restraint), and the heart becomes pure.
Efforts to quiet the mind by indulgence can never succeed. You will have to come into restraint, whether householder or renunciant.