Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I help others without becoming proud of my kindness?
Give without ego
After an act of compassion, feel that you are giving the Lord's things to the Lord. Your wealth, property and body were given by Bhagwan, so there is nothing to be proud of.
After showing compassion, we must be free of possessiveness. However great a favour we do for another, we must keep this in the heart: we are giving the Lord's things to the Lord.