Premanand Maharaj Ji
How should I behave when my elders or parents speak harshly to me?
Stay humble before elders, like Vibhishan
Stay humble with respected elders even if they get angry or speak bitterly. Staying silent when your own people say harsh words is Bhagwan's grace, as Vibhishan showed.
Though it is hard, when one of our own speaks harsh words to us and we stay silent, that is indeed Bhagwan's grace.