Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I let go of past relationships and start afresh?
Give up past wrong bonds and their feelings
Young people who do not know better ruin their lives through wrong relationships. Even so, if a person reforms after marriage and gives up those past bonds and the feelings behind them, the household will run properly.
Regarding the husband as God and the wife as one's other half and life, if one gives up all other wrong relationships of the past, those feelings and bonds, then the household will run properly.