Premanand Maharaj Ji
How can I help others with compassion without getting attached?
Compassion without attachment
Be kind, but do not let kindness turn into attachment. Whatever you give, see it as Bhagwan's own thing being returned to Him.
Show compassion, but do not form attachment. Bhagwan says 'nirmamo nirahankara', free of possessiveness and ego; when showing compassion, one has to stay free of attachment.