Premanand Maharaj Ji
How can I develop the ability to forgive people who insult or abuse me?
See Bhagwan in others to forgive them
The wish to forgive grows when you see Bhagwan in everyone. When someone abuses you, think that he is inspired by Bhagwan, so what is his fault? It is happening because of some karma of yours.
The wish to forgive others grows in us when we see Bhagwan in everyone. Inspired by Bhagwan, this person is abusing me. What is the poor one's fault?