Premanand Maharaj Ji
Should I give my children everything they ask for?
Support them, but also restrain them
If improper demands keep being fulfilled, children lose their good conduct and become unfit to serve the nation or Bhagwan. Parents must both fulfil and oppose their child's wishes, and need skill to do both.
If we keep fulfilling children's improper demands, they will fall in conduct, and will be fit neither for service of the nation nor for service of Bhagwan.