Premanand Maharaj Ji
How can I raise my child so they listen to me and don't rebel?
Be a friend, not only a ruler
When parents speak only in commanding words, children pull away out of fear or resentment and become wilful. Give them so much love and encouragement that they keep themselves in restraint and follow your instruction.
We should treat children in a friendly way. We are their parents, yes, but we should behave like a friend, sit with them and ask what is in their heart, and check their mobile.