Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I become more grateful?
Bhagwan is your own, so you do not thank him as a stranger
A "thank you" is for others, and Bhagwan is the dearest of our own. The lesson is to stay in his shelter and be content with whatever situation he brings.
Because "thank you" is said to others. It is not said to one's own. So who is Bhagwan? The dearest of all, our own.