Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I become more grateful?
See Bhagwan in the one who helped you
When someone helps you in trouble, Bhagwan has made that person his instrument, so the kindness is Bhagwan's. The lesson is to bow to Bhagwan in the helper, not to the person.
No, in my trouble Bhagwan made you the instrument. My Bhagwan did it. The kindness is Bhagwan's. You are only the instrument.