Premanand Maharaj Ji
Is thinking of someone all the time and being attracted to them love?
Attraction is kaam, not prem
The attraction between man and woman is kaam, not prem. Prem belongs to Sat-Chit-Anand, the Divine.
Nowadays the word prem is used for enjoyment of the physical body made of five elements; that is not called prem, it is called kaam.