Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
What is the difference between true love and selfishness?
True love stays steady and grows
True love is always the same and ever-growing, with no wish to gain anything. Love that fades once a purpose is served is selfishness, not love.
Love means staying always the same and growing every day. Worldly love fades and shrinks once some object is gained or a selfish purpose is fulfilled.